Day 4 - Forgiveness That Seeks Reconciliation

When Peter asked Jesus how many times, he should forgive someone who wrongs him, he likely expected to be praised for his generosity in suggesting seven times. Jesus answered with a number so large it was meant to communicate something beyond arithmetic: there is no ceiling on forgiveness.

Here is a message from Pastor Will:

"I know that forgiveness and reconciliation are difficult subjects for many to practice. And feeling like I left some things unanswered last week, I want to address them here.

In my reading I was led to Matthew 5:25 and Luke 12:58. Jesus speaking “When you are on the way to court with your adversary, settle or reconcile your differences quickly.”

And I realized something I have never noticed.

The one who is taken them to court is the one who has been offended or wronged. The one required to reconcile is the offender.

Forgiveness can only be given to someone who has repented and is desiring reconciliation.

Reconciliation cannot begin without the offender initiating it, and forgiveness cannot be given with our repentance.

When we have been wronged and the offending person comes seeking forgiveness, our call is to move toward them in the same way God moved toward us when we repented.

I will share more on Sunday."

Reflection questions:

- Is there a relationship in your life where repentance has been spoken but reconciliation has been avoided?

- What fears or wounds make reconciliation feel impossible?

- You can pray to the Holy Spirit and ask where you are needing to repent or offer forgiveness to restore